A Guide to Being the ULTIMATE Wedding Guest
Wedding season is well underway! Weddings are about the happy couple, it’s their day, but part of the joy of getting married is celebrating with family and friends and having them share in your special occasion. As a guest, your efforts can go a long way to making someone’s wedding day everything they hope for! Being a wedding guest involves being respectful, engaging, and thoughtful. Read on for tips on how YOU can be the ULTIMATE wedding guest this summer:
1. RSVP Promptly
Respond to the invitation as soon as possible. This helps the couple plan accurately for the number of guests.
2. Dress Appropriately
Follow the dress code specified in the invitation. If none is provided, consider the venue and time of day to choose an appropriate outfit. When in doubt, opt for something slightly more formal.
3. Arrive on Time & Be Respectful
Arrive at the venue early or on time. Being punctual shows respect for the couple’s schedule and allows you to participate fully in the ceremony. Participate when appropriate and avoid being a distraction (e.g., silencing your phone, not taking photos unless permitted).
4. Show Appreciation
Thank the couple and their families for hosting you. Couples and their families want you to be part of the celebration, showing appreciation for your inclusion adds to the joy!
5. Follow Gift Etiquette
Bring a thoughtful gift that fits within your budget. Check the couple’s registry if they have one or consider giving a monetary gift if that’s preferred. Sending the gift before the wedding can be more convenient.
6. Be Mindful of Social Media
Respect the couple’s wishes regarding social media. If they’ve requested no photos be posted, honor that request. Otherwise, share tasteful and positive moments without overshadowing the couple’s professional photos.
Now that you’ve aced housekeeping and ceremony etiquette, it’s time to bring positive energy!
1. Hit the Dance Floor
Don’t be shy about dancing. Join in on the fun and encourage others to dance as well. If there’s a group dance or a special song, participate enthusiastically.
2. Engage in Activities
Many weddings have games, photo booths, or other interactive elements. Take part in these activities and encourage others to as well. It helps create a lively and inclusive atmosphere.
3. Be a Social Butterfly
Mingle with other guests and engage in conversation. Introduce yourself to people you don’t know and try to bring groups of guests together. Being friendly and approachable makes everyone feel more comfortable.
More solo butterfly than social? You’re not alone! If big events aren’t your cup of tea, and you prefer to stay at your table than do the Macarena, just remember to stay positive. Smile and share in the excitement around you!
4. Compliment the Couple and Event
Express genuine compliments about the wedding, the venue, the décor, and how lovely the couple looks. Positive comments help reinforce the joyful atmosphere.
5. Capture and Share Memories
If the couple is okay with it, take fun and candid photos of guests enjoying the celebration. Share these memories with the couple afterward as a thoughtful gesture. Just remember to respect any social media requests they have in place.
6. Participate in Traditions
Join in on wedding traditions like the bouquet toss, garter toss, or any cultural customs that are part of the celebration. Your participation shows respect and adds to the fun.
7. Be Positive and Enthusiastic
Maintain a positive attitude throughout the event. Smile, laugh, and show enthusiasm for each part of the celebration. Your energy can be contagious and enhance the experience for everyone.
Bonus Tip: Offer Help if Needed
Sometimes, a little assistance can make a big difference. Offer to help with small tasks if you notice something needs attention, like guiding an elderly guest to their seat or helping a parent with a child. It shows you’re considerate and engaged.
By combining these elements, you’ll contribute to a vibrant and joyous wedding atmosphere, making the celebration even more memorable for everyone involved!
-Paige Sandvold is a Marketing Manager at Directwest